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Wednesday, February 24, 2010
What is Spooning?
Have you ever read or heard people talking about how they like spooning, but have wondered exactly what they were talking about? Is it some unusual sexual position or could it simply be a form of affectionate or even passionate embrace? This article explores the concept.
"Spooning" is a form of embrace normally enjoyed in bed but it does not have to involve lovemaking or sexual penetration. It is something women often speak fondly about because it is an intimate form of cuddling, where both participants lie on their side and one snuggles up against the other's back and both of them have their legs bent forward so that the buttocks of one "sits" into the groin of the other. This in effect creates a "spoon" formation, where one is ladling the other, as it were.
The feeling that spooning can give a woman, of being tucked into her man's big warm body, his broad chest against her smaller back, his strong arms wrapped around her, is possibly one of her most enjoyable things in the world. She can feel so safe, warm, cared for and loved. It is very intimate yet comfortable. Some say that nothing beats it.
Whilst it is useful for pregnant women, the woman does not always have to be in the front, making the male the spoon. The one in front is sometimes called the spoon-ee and as such, is in a more vulnerable position, since the one behind has more control. This may be one reason why the man is typically the spoon. The woman trust him and is content to feel his warmth behind him.
The original meaning of spooning was dating. When a couple went out on a date they had to carry an overly large decorative spoon with them. This told everyone that they were on a date. Everyone watched them to make sure they "behaved" while out on their date. How times have changed!
There are a many men and women on forums and dating websites who that say spooning is one of the things they miss the most - just going to bed and cuddling up next to someone. If you read their profiles they just want someone to cuddle with and be with. A lot of people welcome spooning and cuddling with or without sex. It's only natural to want touch and comfort someone.
So in summary, while spooning can be part of a sexual encounter, it doesn't have to be and in fact, is not normally implied in the term. So next time you're reading someone's online profile and they say they like spooning, try not to get the wrong idea.
What to Do When Cuddling is All She Wants
Many women lose their desire for sex; but retain the desire to cuddle. The desire for this comes from feelings of tenderness. Feelings of tenderness are different from sexual desire or love.
For both men and women, feelings of tenderness develop as an infant. The feelings of tenderness are directed towards parents or other caregivers. These feelings come from having basic needs fulfilled. As a grownup, feelings of tenderness come about in the same manner; when her basic needs are met.
Feelings of sexual desire also develop as an infant. Desire may or may not be present when she has feelings of tenderness. Many men become confused and frustrated by this. They mistake her feelings of tenderness for signs of sexual desire. Responding to those feelings will not create a desire for sex.
Love is can be confused with tenderness. Love is defined as a willingness to sacrifice for your partner. It can be measured by what she has given up in the past, and is still willing to give up in the future. Love is not measured by what she is given.
If she wants to cuddle, she is telling you that her very basic needs have been met. It doesn't mean that she is in love, much less wants sex. When she wants to cuddle, expressions of love and sexual desire may have to wait for another time. If all she ever wants to do is cuddle, sexual desire and love may be lacking in the relationship. Make sure to understand and talk openly with her.
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Cuddling Up to Comfort, Style and Taste
Most people spend about a third of their lives sleeping so buying a bed is one of the most important pieces of furniture you can select. Additionally, many people use their beds as a surface to do activities such as read and relax. The type of bed you choose will be determined by the number of people using the bed, the space available in the bedroom, the size of the anticipated occupants, your style preferences and your budget.
With the exception of twin and cot size beds, which can only accommodate one person, beds are sized for more than one person. However, the habits, size, and intended use of the purchasers will determine what size bed best suits them. The bedroom size will also be a consideration. To determine size, purchasers will want to consider whether they are restless sleepers, whether they plan to use the bed for family activities outside of sleeping, and whether their build requires a larger or smaller amount of space. Furthermore, the overall appearance of their bedroom and the spaciousness of the room once the bed is in it should be considered.
Beds are available in many materials and styles. Wrought iron, laminate, leather, and wood are common materials used to make beds. When buying a bed, consider the durability and care of each material. In addition, purchasers should consider whether they plan to move the bed after purchasing it. Certain materials such as laminate may chip or scratch, but are relatively easy to wipe clean. Wooden beds may scratch, but the natural wood grain often hides minor scratches and they can be refinished. Wrought iron is heavy, but can provide timeless beauty. Wrought iron should be cleaned periodically with mild detergent and warm water to avoid rust stains. Once you have decided on the material, you will need to decide on the style. Sit on the beds and lean against the headboard to determine if it is comfortable for reading or watching television in bed. Leather headboards have the advantage of feeling soft against your head, but they may crack or scratch. Bed designs vary so your personal preference as to a more modern, traditional, or eclectic look will guide you. Furthermore, you may want to consider the ease of making a particular bed. Bunkbeds, due to the upper bed's height, can be difficult to make well and platform beds can require excessive bending.
Beds are available in many price ranges. Since most people keep their beds for many years make sure that you purchase a bed that provides maximal comfort for the price. Generally, larger beds made with more expensive materials are the most costly. Inexpensive beds can be under $200.00, but beds can also cost many thousands. There is a bed for everyone's budget.
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Why Men Should Cuddle With Women More Often
There are many differences between men and women, and just how different the 2 sexes are is something that has been argued over for years and years. Pick up any dating magazine and you will be swamped with tips and articles that tell you what both men and women really want from each other. Of all the different opinions out there today, not one of them can completely answer the question and give an overall generalization of what each sex wants from the other. Most people think that men are a lot easier to read than women are, and I would honestly have to agree with that one. Women are another story though. Their hints are much more subtle than the signals that men give off, but it's necessarily a bad thing.
The differences between men and women extend even into the realm of intimacy. Men are very obvious and direct in their approach to intimacy, while women like gentle caressing and cuddling. Let's look at sex as an example. It has been published almost everywhere now that a large percentage of women like to cuddle after intercourse. How are men different? That's right, the majority of men would much rather be left alone, or just go right to sleep. This kind of response from a man isn't really his fault either. It has to do with his physiological response. Guys want to go to sleep right away because their orgasm releases a chemical called serotonin. This chemical is known for causing positive changes in mood, but it also makes you want to sleep.
Women also experience a physiological response after having intercourse. A hormone called oxytocin is released inside their bodies. This hormone is responsible for the urge to be close to and bond with their partner that women have after sexual activity. Women like cuddling so much that a few studies have shown women to prefer it over having sex. I know this sounds strange to guys at first, but it's only because women have a biological need for closeness and intimacy.
So why do most guys have such a problem with cuddling? The most common reason is that it just feels too feminine and "girly". When it's time to cuddle, women become very personal, open, and willing to share and talk about their feelings. This is something that the majority of men either don't want to, or don't know how to deal with. Cuddling with a woman is not as easy as it looks, but you will do just fine if you use the following advice as your guide.
Cuddling with women is something that is going to require a lot of your attention, and it might feel a little strange at first. Don't worry, because it's EASY to do it with the person you love once you get the hang of it. You just might find that you like it! The first thing you need to do is relax. Cradling a woman in your arms is a good thing, whether you do it on the couch, in your car, or on your bed. You will learn over time that it's a wonderful bonding experience for both of you.